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Personal Confidence
Lacking confidence is often a major barrier to dating and relationships, and many people struggle to move past their comfort zones and reach for their goals.
Difficulty in developing conversations, a lack of social support and networks, and anxieties over our personal appearance only seek to ingrain this thinking.
THERAPY SESSIONS
From topics such as conversation and personal makeovers to self-image, self-esteem and building a social life, I am confident that my trusted experience in these fields will be able to help you grow and improve with swift and tangible results.
I offer a highly engaging and interactive experience with quizzes, games and practical instruction which helps to embed learning and I believe that a flexible approach, delivered at your own pace, is more conducive to the healing process.
Individual sessions are delivered 1-2-1 and run for 12 consecutive weeks, with each session lasting for 1 1/2 hours.
Many procrastinators have a weakened immune system
ABOUT PERSONAL CONFIDENCE
Lacking the personal confidence to begin your dating journey and find a partner can feel overwhelming difficult to get past. When our self-esteem is low, it can be hard to believe we can find a loving partner. We may lack faith in our abilities, suffer negative thinking about our bodies and image, feel isolated socially, and unable to find the courage to stretch our wings.
We will work through conversational techniques, take a detailed look at personal appearance and our bodies, and provide practical advice to establish a new life-affirming social network.
With my help, you will be able to challenge your beliefs, remove negative thinking, and build confidence in your ability to find love.
SUBJECTS WE WILL COVER
Develop Self Esteem
Want to become a confident, self-assured and courageous person? We can develop your self-esteem and take your love life to the next level! READ MORE
“Be genuinely interested in everyone you meet and everyone you meet will be genuinely interested in you” Rasheed Ogunlaru
Conversation Skills
Possess the confidence and charm of an expert conversationalist and kick-start your love life. Learn how to approach, start and build conversations which engage, enthral and delight. READ MORE
The Art of Flirting
Become a great flirt and learn how to charm and influence people. Flirting’s a great way to let someone know you’re interested and to test the waters before making a move! READ MORE
Overcome Procrastination
It’s time to ditch the indecision and move forward with your life! Unlock the door to your procrastination and start searching for the man or woman of your dreams. READ MORE
Improve Your Social Life
An active social life can make you feel supported and boost your self-esteem. It's a great way to make new connections and develop character-building interests that appeal to potential partners READ MORE
40% to 60% of adults say they are shy
CALL ME IF...
- You find dating and relationships make your nervous and you want to be able to enjoy them
- You are conscious of your appearance and your body
- You have negative feelings and emotions about yourself and your self-worth
- You struggle to communicate with others effectively
- You feel isolated and lack social support or networks
- You want to become more confident in order to develop in other areas
ADDITIONAL SUBJECTS
Home Makeover
Want to invite a date up for coffee, but worried about the mess? Time to makeover your home and create a warm, cosy and inviting love nest. READ MORE
The Art of Flirting
Become a great flirt and learn how to charm and influence people. Flirting’s a great way to let someone know you’re interested and to test the waters before making a move! READ MORE
Men should wear blue - this is a very attractive colour to a woman
Cooking for Dates
It’s time to get back in the kitchen and whip up a storm! Cooking is great for your social life and potential dates will melt-like-butter with your new culinary skills. READ MORE
Personal Makeover
Want to re-invent your personal style but don’t know how to do it? Learn how to accentuate your positives through clothing, hairstyles and perfect grooming. READ MORE
1 in 5 people believe procrastination has put their job, relationship, family and finances at risk
Develop Self Esteem
Want to become a confident, self-assured and courageous person? We can develop your self-esteem and take your love life to the next level!
Lack of self-esteem can really limit us when dating. After all, not having the courage or confidence to approach someone you are attracted to or send a message on a dating site puts an immediate end to finding someone to love. A high level of self-esteem is a seriously attractive quality, and despite our reservations, it’s very easy to cultivate.
I have a whole host of confidence-boosting tools, tricks and practical strategies to pass on, that you can start using immediately. I’ll uncover what’s holding you back, and put tried and tested methods in place to help you overcome your limiting beliefs and behaviours. If there is one thing you can do to improve your chances in love, it’s developing greater self-esteem and confidence – so this is the perfect time to start finding your true love potential!
ARRANGE A CONSULTATION IF...
You don’t believe in yourself or your ability to find love- You struggle to believe that a partner will find you attractive and worthy of love
- You need to unlock the reasons why you currently struggle to find a soulmate, and want to do that in a supportive environment
- You have experienced some psychological or health problems that are affecting your self-esteem
- You want to be the best lover, friend, employee or colleague you can be, but need guidance to do that
- You lack experience sexually or feel you need to learn more about yourself before starting a relationship
1 in 5 people believe procrastination has put their job, relationship, family and finances at risk
Overcome Procrastination
It’s time to ditch the indecision and move forward with your life! Unlock the door to your procrastination and start searching for the man or woman of your dreams.
We all get stuck-in-a-rut sometimes and find ourselves procrastinating. It so easy to just leave a difficult task for tomorrow – and yet, as we all know, tomorrow never comes! Procrastination is a frustrating habit that can make us feel constantly left behind and distracts our focus away from the things that really matter to us.
We’ll reveal the secret as to why we procrastinate and then practice procrastination-busting techniques to get you moving again. Whether you want to start your search for a soulmate or stop avoiding an issue that’s currently keeping you in a bad place, this course will take you get out the rut, and into the fast lane!
ARRANGE A CONSULTATION IF...
- You keep avoiding certain tasks and activities
- You can’t move forward with your dating journey
- You keep pushing things that matter to you to the bottom of the list
- You know there’s something stopping you from moving forward and you want to unblock it in a safe, supported environment
- You keep putting either your work or social life above finding ‘the one’
- You are scared to try dating because you’ve had a bad experience and so feel pessimistic about the future
Many procrastinators have a weakened immune system
Improve Your Social Life
An active social life can make you feel supported and boost your self-esteem. It's a great way to make new connections and develop character-building interests that appeal to potential partners
Having a good circle of friends is one of life’s joys, as we are fundamentally happier and healthier when we have the support of other people. We can sometimes fall into the trap of letting friendships disappear, however, and not starting new ones. As we grow as people, our friendship group will inevitably change and we can often feel left behind.
Discover the reason why having a social life is so important when you are looking to start a new relationship. I will help you to find activities that you enjoy and offer advice on where to meet new people, as well as instructions on how to create an action plan that will transform your social sphere and get you loving life again!
ARRANGE A CONSULTATION IF...
- You don’t currently have an active social life, but want to get out there and meet more people
- You are worried and anxious about meeting new people and need a step-by-step guide to help cultivate a great social life
- You don’t know where to look to find new friends and potential dates
- You find socialising difficult or have social anxiety
- You need to grow your social circle again, as friends have slipped away because of family and marriage
- You find it easier to look for potential dates on a face-to-face level
The Evolutionary Anthropologist, Robin Dunbar, concluded that the average person has a total of 150 friends and acquaintances.
Conversation Skills
Possess the confidence and charm of an expert conversationalist and kick-start your love life. Learn how to approach, start and build conversations which engage, enthral and delight.
Do you get tongue-tied when talking to a date? Not sure about how to start a conversation? Not having the skills to start and develop a conversation can really put the brakes on your love life. Confidence is key when dating, as stumbling over your words or being overly quiet really won’t help you to get the partner of your dreams.
I am able to help you overcome these issues and enable you to talk both freely and easily when in conversation. Everyone has the ability to hold great, memorable conversations. Even if you are quiet, shy or feel socially awkward, there are many ways to let your natural confident-self shine through.
I will teach you how to start a conversation and keep it going, how to listen attentively to your date, let them know you are interested in them; and the secrets of reading body language like an expert. Before long, you’ll be picking up on those all-important signals.
ARRANGE A CONSULTATION IF...
- You struggle to ask someone out on a date - you really want to but something is holding you back
- You crumble on a date and get tongue-tied and frustrated
- You want to widen your social network but feel socially awkward
- You fear people won’t find you engaging, interesting or worth listening to
- You don’t know how to start a conversation, but you know you want to
- You want to become an expert conversationalist because it will benefit all areas of your life
Over 100 muscles need to work together to enable us to speak
The Art of Flirting
Become a great flirt and learn how to charm and influence people. Flirting’s a great way to let someone know you’re interested and to test the waters before making a move!
What is flirting and how can it get me a date? If you shy away from flirting because you fear possible rejection or don’t have the confidence, you’ll love this experience. It has everything you need to get you back on track to becoming a first-class flirt!
If you’ve avoided parties and social engagements or stopped yourself from talking to that girl or boy you really like, you’ll appreciate the gems that make my tried and trusted advice sparkle. With an in-depth analysis of body language and tips on how to spot potential people to flirt with you’ll soon be flirting all around town.
ARRANGE A CONSULTATION IF...
- You are too shy to flirt and hide out in the kitchen at parties
- You don’t know how to flirt effectively or read ‘the signs’
- You want to flirt but you feel awkward and silly, and need to know the best way
- You are too afraid to chat someone up or even talk to someone
- You want to catapult your dating up to the next level and start getting dates
- You need to know how to read body language when talking to someone, either on a date or in another social situation
Home Makeover
Want to invite a date up for coffee, but worried about the mess? Time to makeover your home and create a warm, cosy and inviting love nest.
Inviting a date in for a late-night coffee is a terrifically thrilling event. Often though, we kick-start this adventure by apologising and lamenting our living conditions, and awkwardly rummaging around the cupboards to find a suitable clean cup!
Whether you live on your own, or in shared accommodation, it’s vital for your dating journey to have a clean and tidy space. Our homes demonstrate to others how we feel about ourselves, and our cleanliness habits are closely observed by visitors. With your home makeover I will work through a step-by-step guide to declutter, clean, tidy and decorate your home.
These inexpensive activities will transform a tired, unkempt space into a cosy, warm and comfortable home, ready for any surprise visitors.
THIS MODULE IS FOR YOU IF…
- You are dating and want to bring your date back to your home
- You want to give the best possible impression to a date
- You want to declutter but are not sure where to start
- You want to redecorate but are not sure where to start
- You aren’t even sure what a tidy space looks and feel like
"Discarding is not the point; what matters is keeping those things that bring you joy" Marie Kondo
The Art of Flirting
Become a great flirt and learn how to charm and influence people. Flirting’s a great way to let someone know you’re interested and to test the waters before making a move!
What is flirting and how can it get me a date? If you shy away from flirting because you fear possible rejection or don’t have the confidence, you’ll love this experience. It has everything you need to get you back on track to becoming a first-class flirt!
If you’ve avoided parties and social engagements or stopped yourself from talking to that girl or boy you really like, you’ll appreciate the gems that make my tried and trusted advice sparkle. With an in-depth analysis of body language and tips on how to spot potential people to flirt with you’ll soon be flirting all around town.
THIS MODULE IS FOR YOU IF…
- You are too shy to flirt and hide out in the kitchen at parties
- You don’t know how to flirt effectively or read ‘the signs’
- You want to flirt but you feel awkward and silly, and need to know the best way
- You are too afraid to chat someone up or even talk to someone
- You want to catapult your dating up to the next level and start getting dates
- You need to know how to read body language when talking to someone, either on a date or in another social situation
Cooking for Dates
It’s time to get back in the kitchen and whip up a storm! Cooking is great for your social life and potential dates will melt-like-butter with your new culinary skills.
Being able to cook is a fantastic skill that not only improves your health but is also creative and fun, and a real winner on a date. Who doesn’t love to be cooked for?
Impress friends, family and lovers with your new skills, and learn how to eat healthily, stock up the kitchen with essentials and basic equipment and start cooking with gas straight away in this practical how-to instruction.
With 36 recipes, a healthy eating guide, equipment list and detailed information to get started, you’ll be turning pro, before you know it.
THIS MODULE IS FOR YOU IF…
- You want to impress a date when you finally invite them back to your home
- You are wanting to lose a few pounds to give you more confidence when dating
- You have never cooked before and you need to know the basics
- You want to learn how to cook for yourself
- You want to show off your skills to friends and family
A Sofrito is the common base of many dishes like bolognese, stews and chilli
Personal Makeover
Want to re-invent your personal style but don’t know how to do it? Learn how to accentuate your positives through clothing, hairstyles and perfect grooming.
Time for a makeover! The way we look often affects the way we think about ourselves. If we don’t groom and care for our bodies, it can be easy to feel unhappy and pessimistic about our dating futures. We can easily fall into a trap of thinking we are too ‘fat’ or too ‘ugly to find someone.
Of course, “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”, and if can we take steps to cultivate a personal style and grooming regime, we can easily reveal our sexy and confident true selves. With your personal makeover, I will look at body types, hairstyles, and personal grooming to set you well on the path to creating an irresistible, energetic version of you!
THIS MODULE IS FOR YOU IF…
- You find it difficult to believe someone will find you attractive
- You are about to start to dating and want to look your best
- You struggle to find clothes and hairstyles that suit you
- You need style advice to create a new look for yourself
- You need a new wardrobe and want to do it in a planned way
- You want to create your own personal style
In Britain, shoe sizes are still measured by the Anglo-Saxon method which used barleycorns to calculate the size of the feet
